THE MEASURE OF A REAL FATHER

A REAL FATHER PREPARES HIS CHILDREN In a small village nestled between rolling hills, lived a man named Kito. To everyone in the village, Kito was a father like any other—hardworking, stern, and a man of few words. But to his children, he was more than just a father; he was a real father. Kito’s day began before the sun even touched the horizon. He would rise quietly, careful not to wake his children, and head to the fields. His hands were calloused, and his back was bent from years of labor, but his spirit remained strong. The villagers often whispered that Kito was too strict, that he demanded too much from his children, but they didn't see what happened behind closed doors. At night, after a long day of work, Kito would gather his children around the flickering light of the fireplace. He would tell them stories—not just of brave warriors or distant lands but of the values that make a man strong and honorable. He spoke of integrity, humility, and the importance of keeping one's word. His children hung on his every word, not because they feared him, but because they respected him. Kito’s eldest son, often struggled with the responsibilities placed on his shoulders. One evening, overwhelmed with frustration, HE asked, “Father, why must I always work so hard? Why can’t I play like the other boys?” Kito looked at his son, his eyes softening with understanding. He said gently, “a father’s role is not just to provide, but to guide. I work hard so that you may learn the value of effort, the strength in perseverance, and the satisfaction of a job well done. A real father prepares his children for life’s challenges, so they may stand tall, even when the world tries to knock them down.” Years passed, and the children grew. Kito never wavered in his discipline, but it was always tempered with love. When Kamau made a mistake that could have brought shame to the family, Kito didn’t scold him; instead, he helped him make amends, teaching him that true strength lies in taking responsibility. The village watched in awe as Kito’s children blossomed into strong, compassionate, and wise adults. They realized that Kito was not just a father who provided food and shelter, but a real father who nurtured the soul, taught through example, and loved with a fierce, unwavering heart. Being a father is not about perfection, but about presence. It’s about being there for your children, even when it’s hard. It’s about teaching them right from wrong, not just with words, but with actions. It’s about love, sacrifice, and the quiet strength that binds a family together.” In the end, Kito’s greatest gift to his children wasn’t just the lessons he taught, but the example he set—a testament to what it truly means to be a real father.