CLOSE THE WINDOWS THAT HURTS YOU, NO MATTER HOW BEAUTIFULTHE VIEW IS

Life often presents us with situations that seem appealing at first glance. They may look like perfect opportunities, wonderful relationships, or paths to success. However, just like a beautiful view seen through a window can mask the storm brewing outside, these attractive situations may hide pain, frustration, or even destruction. Learning to recognize and close the windows that hurt us—despite their beauty—becomes a crucial part of protecting our peace, well-being, and future. The Allure of a Beautiful View A stunning view is often hard to turn away from. It captivates your attention, drawing you in with the promise of joy, fulfillment, or achievement. This "beautiful view" can take many forms in our lives: a toxic relationship masked by sweet moments, a promising job that steals your time and energy, or a lifestyle that seems glamorous but slowly erodes your mental and emotional health. We cling to these windows, hoping that things will get better, believing that the beauty we see will eventually outweigh the pain. The truth is, when we ignore the pain for too long, it only deepens. Recognizing the Hurt Closing the window starts with recognizing the hurt. Sometimes, we overlook the signs of discomfort because we want so desperately for the situation to work. We become attached to the potential of what we see through the window, but the reality is that it harms us more than it helps. Maybe that job you’ve held onto for years is draining your energy, or a relationship is causing more anxiety than joy. If the hurt outweighs the beauty, it's time to take a step back. Pain, though sometimes necessary for growth, shouldn’t be an ongoing experience that steals your joy and peace. When it does, it’s time to reassess why you're still looking out of that window. The Courage to Close the Window Closing a window that’s hurting you requires courage. It’s difficult to shut out something you once desired or believed in. However, keeping it open can result in more harm. Imagine standing in front of an open window while a harsh wind blows in. You know you should close it, but the view outside makes you hesitant. If you continue standing there, that wind could harm you in ways you never expected. Sometimes, the greatest form of self-love is walking away from something—even if it looks appealing—because it doesn't serve your highest good. You deserve to thrive, and anything that continuously causes you pain is holding you back from becoming the best version of yourself. Building Healthier Views When you close that painful window, you make space to discover other windows that offer not only beautiful views but also peace, growth, and happiness. Healthy relationships, fulfilling careers, and a balanced lifestyle are worth far more than any temporary, attractive, yet destructive situation. By prioritizing your well-being, you can enjoy new experiences that truly enhance your life. Final Thoughts No matter how beautiful the view is, if it hurts you, let it go. Life is too short to keep holding on to things that drain your joy and peace. Closing that window might feel tough at first, but it opens the door to healing, growth, and new opportunities. Choose peace over pain, and know that there are many more beautiful—and healthy—views ahead.