✅ Chapter 7: You’re Not Crazy: The Psychological Warfare Of Narcissistic Love

ANURI MABEL

 

✅ Chapter 7 

You’re Not Crazy: The Psychological Warfare Of Narcissistic Love

From the book: "Snatched from the Claws of a Narcissist" by Anuri Mabel

🟣Why This Blog Matters

Have you ever questioned your own sanity in a relationship? Learn how narcissists use psychological warfare to confuse and control, and how God restores clarity and confidence.

🟢 You Will Learn;

narcissistic gaslighting signs, emotional abuse recovery, Christian healing from manipulation, narcissist psychological warfare, am I crazy in this relationship, God restores broken minds, healing from narcissistic love

💔 Introduction:

You’re Not Imagining It

You second-guessed yourself.
You rewrote texts before sending them.
You replayed conversations, wondering if you misunderstood.

You whispered, “Maybe it’s just me.”
But it wasn’t just you.
You were being psychologically attacked in the name of love.

“For God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and a sound mind.” — 2 Timothy 1:7

You are not crazy.
You were just in a relationship with someone who made you doubt your own reality.

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🧠 What Psychological Warfare Looks Like in Narcissistic Relationships

Narcissistic love is never about partnership. It’s about power.

The tactics may be silent, but they’re deadly:

  • Gaslighting: “That never happened.” / “You’re overreacting.”

  • Projection: They accuse you of the very things they do.

  • Love-bombing & Withdrawal: Intense affection followed by cold silence.

  • Triangulation: Comparing you to others to keep you insecure.

  • Blame-shifting: You’re always at fault—no matter what they do.

“They speak vanity every one with his neighbour: with flattering lips and with a double heart do they speak.” — Psalm 12:2 (KJV)

⚠️ Why It Feels Like You’re Losing Your Mind

Because every argument turns into confusion.
Every need you express is labeled as nagging.
Every emotion becomes ammunition.

Eventually, you start apologizing for breathing too loud.
You distrust your memory.
You question your discernment.

That’s not love. That’s mental warfare.

🙏🏽 But God Restores What Narcissists Try to Break

Even when your thoughts are tangled, God’s voice is steady.
He gently separates the lies from the truth.
He reminds you of who you are—not who you were made to feel like.

“The Lord gives strength to His people; the Lord blesses His people with peace.” — Psalm 29:11

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💡 3 Truths God Wants You to Remember

🔹 1. You Are Not the Problem

Narcissists thrive by making others feel flawed.
God says otherwise:

“You are altogether beautiful, my darling; there is no flaw in you.” — Song of Songs 4:7

🔹 2. You’re Not Crazy—You’re Confused Because of Abuse

There’s a difference between mental illness and being mentally attacked.
The fog you feel is a result, not a flaw.

🔹 3. You Still Hear God—Even If You’re Struggling

Abuse doesn’t cancel your anointing.
Confusion doesn’t silence your calling.

“My sheep listen to my voice; I know them, and they follow me.” — John 10:27

🛠️ Healing Your Mind After Psychological Abuse

✅ Speak Scripture Over Your Mind Daily

Combat lies with God’s truth. Write verses like:

“You will keep in perfect peace those whose minds are steadfast, because they trust in You.” — Isaiah 26:3

✅ Get Professional Help + Spiritual Support

Therapy and prayer are not enemies—they work together.
Healing takes time, and God uses many tools.

✅ Distance Yourself from Mental Triggers

Healing begins with space. Even Jesus walked away from toxic crowds to restore His peace.

💌 A Final Word of Mercy

Dear woman of God,
You’re not broken. You’re not unstable.
You’re not crazy.

You were under attack—and God is your Defender.
He’s restoring your mind, renewing your clarity, and reminding you that you were never the issue.
You are still whole. Still chosen. Still held.

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📩 Call to Action:

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📘 Next up: Chapter 8 – “The Day I Chose Me: Walking Away Without Guilt” (coming soon)


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